q: why do you describe yourself as a ladyboy?
because i am, and this is no lie, most importantly i want to cause people's attention, not for the popularity to my own, but for the education to everyone,

q: are you a girl or boy?
ladyboy is a she,

q: why do call yourself ladyboy then if you're not a boy?
it's only a description, imagine there are airplanes called 'falcon' which they're actually nothing more than a piece of metal, ladyboys are ladys who were boys, (remember you can only use past tense to describe them as boys if you insist to,)

q: what's ladyboy anyway? are you shemale?
ladyboy is a girl who people thought that is a boy, well maybe she was a boy, different people may have different meaning to the word, for me 'ladyboys' are those who was born male, but strongly think it should be a female, as strongly as to die for it(would you?), ladyboys are unlike those 'playboys' who have no intend to have sex change but only enjoy playing female role for fun, either one person is ladyboy or playboy cannot be tell from their appearance and hence unfortunately they usually got mixed up, for me the word 'shemale' belongs to one of the kind of the playboys,

q: what!? you got a rod then do you?
ladyboys do not always got that thing ok,

q: but i saw somewhere they got boobs and showing off their big hard rod?!
they're not ladyboys then, even some ladyboys may still have their born organ, they dislike it, don't even think about to show it off, by the way in most cases they are of no function or no power,

q: what are they then?
i don't know, there are many many different kinds of people anyway, 'crossdresser', 'transvestite', whatever, i alawys think they are what referred to the word 'shemale', or maybe they will call themselves as ladyboys too hope they don't,

q: have you undergone full operation? cut it yet? take pills? ...?
this kind of question is more embarrassing than asking the color of your underwear, would you like to tell people casually? i would not, moreover, if i tell u no/not yet, then, will you give me money to perform that? so what makes the difference,

q: ok then would you like people to call you miss or mister?
miss of course, this is the most fundamental question of all, be show respect with ladyboys,

q: can i meet you?
you can meet many ladyboys in thailand, maybe you can meet me there too,

q: are you a gay?
no, that is a totally different thing, don't mess it up with transgender,

q: transgender?
transgender(or widely known as transsexual) is a formal word to describe people who desire to have sex change, it could be male-to-female or female-to-male, some of them(especially in china) claim themselves as pure ordinary men or women after srs(sex reassignment surgey), yes they are in some way, and they are also very selfish in the same time, imagine how could the next person be accepted if these people cannot even accept themselves of what they are/were, (i'm just talking about to face the past, not to emphasis the past, not show off the past) how could the world be educated without the aware of existence of such a thing, ladyboys are more positive(and brave) in facing the world, as you can tell they're different in the beginning, from the word 'ladyboy', which this word is widely used in thailand to describe male-to-female transgender persons, applicable to both have undergone operations or not, this is also why i like the word ladyboy because like i said it's positive and, playboys lie, ladyboys don't,

q: i got it, ladyboys are nice and good people are you trying to tell?
not exactly, in fact many kinds of ladyboy i heard of(especially on the internet) are sticked with sex games and enjoy showing off their 'banana', what should i say, ladyboy is only a kind of gender, like man or woman, everytime everywhere there are bad guys and good guys, wether one is evil or not cannot be tell from the outside but the act, just remember, and before you judge someone please understand/study it first,

q: can you send me your pic? cam to cam?
negative, i prefer face to face instead,

q: how can i contact you? at least give me your email?
write it on joycy's board if you like, i will see,

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